LESSON LEARNED
I was in the seventh grade and I don't remember exactly what it was that I wanted to buy, but I did need five dollars to achieve my goal.
I went to my dad and I asked him what I could do to earn an extra five dollars. “Can I wash all the windows in the house?” “Can I help you in your workshop?” “Can I wash and vacuum the car?” My questions went on and on but the answer was always the same “I don't need that.”
While looking out on the beautiful 5-acre patch of grapes that existed between our house and the road, I thought of how my father took such pride in our whole vineyard that he created. Having failed so far in my requests, I said, “What if I weed under all of the grapevines between here and the road?” He looked at me in wonderment and he replied “It's a deal if you weed all those 5 acres --- I will give you five dollars.”
Every day after school that's what I did. Finally, after about a month, my grandmother felt sorry for me and she would go out and help me sometimes in the evening.
The day finally arrived ----I had completed my chore. I went to my dad and recognized the pride in his face. As he was fumbling around in his wallet I was thinking --- wow, he's going to give me more money because he knows how hard I worked.
You can imagine the look on my face when he handed me five dollars. I looked at him and said “But daddy, I worked so hard I thought maybe you'd give me more.”
His simple reply was “Be careful what you bargain for.”
I still smile when I think of that lesson learned from my hard working, caring, Father.